A wedding is one of the most important things in a person's life. The proposal is made, accepted and the date is set. Suddenly one is hit with questions regarding the place, the dress, the flowers, the invitations, the reception, and most of all THE COST.
It is beautiful to see, in various magazines and on television, weddings that cost thousands and thousands of dollars. Unfortunately, everyone does not have that kind of money. This does not mean that those with limited funds cannot have something just as beautiful on 'their day.'
To begin with one must make a list, starting with the most important aspect; the total amount available to spend. Once that is established one can proceed. Let's say the budget is $1200.00 (it can be less). There is no desire to elope to Nevada for a "quickie" wedding which will leave none of the beautiful memories one wishes to have for the rest of their lives.
In breaking down to the bare essentials (and yet retaining elegance) following are suggestions for making this the highlight of your life.
o Wedding location (consider the following locations)
o The family yard. Question - is it large enough? Would it be possible to put up an arbor and decorate it? This would require renting chairs for guests. Cost: Depending on cost of chair rentals.
o Church. Question - do you have a family church? Cost: Ascertain what the cost is. If too much revert to the previous alternative, if possible or ask a family friend if you can use their yard. Above all, check around.
o Local Hall. Cost: Varies, so it pays to check around.
o Minister. Cost: Some ministers charge a certain amount, others accept a donation. This should be worked out ahead of time. If you don't have a regular minister, use the phone book and ask.
o Wedding Dress. Question - is it really important to have an expensive dress that costs hundreds of dollars to wear one day? Cost: Depends on you. Suggestions:
o Goodwill and many thrift stores have beautiful gowns, worn once, price $50- $100.
o Re-sale shops - price varies but very reasonable.
o Craig's list on the internet - some are even given away for free if you're upfront about your need.
o Flowers. Cost: Can be zero if you raid your parents and friends homes. Some decorate with artificial flowers, available at the dollar store for $1.00 per bouquet. Lots of vines can be used to add to the decorations as well as paper streamers. The bride's bouquet can be put together by a talented friend or can be made rather inexpensively at a retail store flower department.
o Invitations. Cost: Can be inexpensive if you design your own or check the internet for ideas and then have them copied at an office supply store. These can be printed on special paper and look very elegant. Many people today are also printing their own using vellum paper you can get at Wal-Mart.
o Reception. Cost: This is where you can call on your family and friends. Decide on the menu and then assign each a portion to prepare. You should provide any drinks, but it will be cheaper if you don't include alcohol. You will no doubt have the cost of renting tables if held at home. If renting a hall or using a church there should be an area for this purpose. If having the wedding at home then a portion of the yard can be set up and work very nicely.
o Cake. Cost: Anyone watching the internet cooking contests can see how beautifully cakes can be made. If there is anyone in your family or a friend who is talented in this area now is the time to enlist their help. A wedding cake from the bakery can cost over $100 but, again, shop around.
o Music. Cost: If you know someone who plays and/or sings it is a plus. A small gratuity is usually given if it is not a close friend. A disc player can always be used and operated by a friend, as well. Speakers go a long way to making a radio sound big and are often available at the thrift stores for almost nothing.
It is hoped this article has been of assistance for your wedding on a budget and best wishes for a beautiful and happy marriage.
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